Relations!

I've had pretty few relations with people which have been fun. But have learned a good deal in the process. Expectation has been the motivation driving all relations.

This winters I was at IIT B. There I met one of my old pals, Vijay. He had written an interesting quote on his wall(with a sketch pen I guess),"don't expect anything great from others and try to live up to others expectations". I had hardly been in his room for an hour or so and had just given a glimpse to those lines. But those lines had certain depth in it or had been charged to a certain potential that they just struck me. Being social seems to be a meer formality to live up in the society. Its pretty tough to find people in this world who have the same frequency as you have. It is a game of harmonics and overtone. Ceratin people are in phase with you while others are out of phase. Its not just a matter of finding good people although they too are few, but it's a matter of finding people who can stay with you and enjoy your company rather than just adjust with you. To understand this you must consider your self as a wave(phisics can't help it) and determine your wavelength in terms of your personality. It does help in a lot of issues away from just building relations. It makes you determine your strenghts, weaknesses and how flexible you are.