It’s my way of living!!!

It was a Friday assembly. The principle of my school Mrs. Lumba was addressing young students (students of class 1st – 5th). She made a remarkable dialogue there “Children, all men are made up of the same matter; they have equal abilities more or less. The thing that differentiates between a looser and a successful person is his focus towards things and how well planed he is. Try and find out your aim and pave the path to achieve it.”
Years have past by but I am still following those lines. As everyone, my life has been influenced by my mother, sister, grand ma, teachers and many friends. The entire credit of what ever I achieve in my life would go to them. Not being emotional any further let me explain what exactly should be the strategy followed by a person to achieve his aims.
We must have a vision. We must know what we want to achieve in long run. Path to success is always a difficult one. Determination to achieve anything should be very high. There are many people around who mock at you and some people even to motivate you.Identify your mistakes and make an effort to improve it.
Success is a step by step process. After achieving the targets of the first step, you shouldn’t think your work is done. Supposedly the first step is the toughest one. Once a man achieves it he gets a feeling that the path ahead is easy, but that’s not the case. Once we are through the first step, although it’s true that we have differentiated our self, but our aim is still far ahead. We must have a clear focus towards our goal and should plan our moves towards it. Our 100% input in right direction is required. Although no one has ever died of hard work but why take a risk. Don’t over do yourself blindly. Wait for the right time and sequence to deliver your best. Each step towards your target is equally tough. Never loose your focus. You must be prepared to work throughout rather than finding shortcuts. Only such moves can give you a satisfied happy life.
We are not week in any respect. We don’t lack anything; it’s only that because we have been unaware or careless about certain activity in the past that we lack behind in certain areas. Try and cope up with others if desired in such areas. Friends are of great assistance at such times. Learn things they excel in. Show enough optimism towards your goals.
Our ways of thinking matters a lot. Some people are always gloomy. They think them selves to be incapable; they keep appreciating others in their trade no matter how good or bad they are. Stay away from such notions and try to avoid such a habit. There are waves traveling in human blood. These waves may be of two kinds - +ve or –ve. It is our way of thinking that decides the flow of these waves. If we are enthusiastic about things then a positive current flows in our body giving us the energy to work. On the same hand if we are skeptic in our approach, our body would never give us the required efficiency to do the work. Thinking does matter a lot. Don’t ever think in a manner that puts you on the back foot. Identify your mistakes and work on them rather than creating a feeling of inferiority amongst you.
What makes us successful? Is it our hard work? No, it is the inputs given by others in our life. No human can achieve anything on his own. Try and identify the guys who are giving such a great assistance to you. Never dream to hurt such person. Always be ready to help such guys. They are your relatives in real sense.
ITS TOUGH MAN TOUGH, TO RULE THE THIRD WORLD !!!